Recently and friends in the feeling, found that once over 25, life is completely different, more than a variety of pressures.
But this age group is both a challenge and an opportunity for women.
Today I share four principles from my own experience, hoping to provide some help to sisters who are going through or about to enter this stage.
1. Know Your True Self
Do you really know yourself?
I believe that when I ask this question, many people will take it for granted.
He had already lived to be 26 years old. How could anyone not understand him?
But is it possible that at 26 we tend to at least reach physical maturity while still being the same insecure kid inside?
Do you know what your strengths or weaknesses are?
Do you know what interests you? Have enough self-worth or purpose in life?
There are not many people around me who can answer these questions.
Therefore, it is very important to know your true self and to have a serious conversation with yourself.
We can learn more about ourselves by keeping a journal and understanding what we really want.
Only by choosing the right direction can we reach the distance we want to go.
2. Love your body and soul.
Before brushing the chatter, I saw everyone saying,”A woman’s life is a life controlled by hormones.”
As a witness, I also believe that hormones have a great impact on women.
Especially with age, women’s bodies undergo a series of changes.
And as a former employee, I know what work can do to women.
A few days ago, I was reading a small red book girl sent a post, saying that the company physical examination, only she did not detect breast hyperplasia, the whole company women are shocked.
It was both funny and sad.
Therefore, sisters should not focus on work, but also pay attention to physical health, proper physical exercise, balanced diet and adequate rest.
After all, the old saying was right,” The body is the capital of everything.”
3. Charge towards the target
I believe that everyone in this age group should have a general understanding of their career prospects and specific career goals.
However, I still want to remind you sisters that in the process of moving towards the goal, you must have your own plan.
Whether you are pursuing further education, seeking a promotion at work, or switching tracks, it is important to have a clear plan.
Planning our career goals can save us a lot of detours and waste time and energy.
At the same time, we should also have the momentum to continuously learn for new goals, continuously learn new skills and knowledge, and improve our competitiveness.
In this process, constantly challenge yourself, dare to go out of comfort zone, to ride the wind and waves.
4. selective association
When I turned 26, I realized that my time and energy became more valuable.
At this time, it is important to learn to selectively engage in relationships and deepen relationships with people who can grow and support each other.
I used to be a flattering personality. I was very patient with anyone and willing to spend my time and energy helping so-called “friends.”
But then I completely corrected this problem, because I found that doing so only increased stress, there is no benefit.
I would rather focus on caring about my family and friends, eating and chatting with them, sharing each other’s recent developments.
To this day I still believe that everyone has limited energy to love, so we should save love for those who deserve it.
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Hopefully, these principles will provide direction and inspiration to sisters who are lost.
Remember, reinventing yourself doesn’t mean denying who you used to be, it means improving and growing.
I wish you all the courage to take every step and grow freely in this world.