The workplace is a place where interests are important, and it is inevitable to deal with different groups of people.
Many times when you are climbing up, someone not only doesn’t pull you up, but also knocks you down. If the original willpower is not strong, add sarcasm and sarcasm. This is undoubtedly holding you back. At this time, you should avoid such people, or take a detour, and don’t let them undermine your self-confidence!
Last weekend, a colleague from the north brought toon tooth sauce to the office and shared it with everyone. He gave it to me and asked me: “Do you like this sauce?”
I reached out and took it and said, “I haven’t eaten it. Let me try it.” I haven’t finished speaking yet.
Another colleague started to criticize me: “This is our northern food. You, a Cantonese, don’t understand it. If you can’t eat it, don’t eat it.”
These words are really prickly, not to the heart, but to the flesh.
Although there are not many such people in life, meeting one makes people feel sick. It is obvious that he is very disrespectful, so he must avoid dealing with such people who affect his mood.
People often say that there are three blessings in life: being with good people, getting along with people who understand you, and working with reliable people. If you want to shine on this road of life, it is very important to choose who to walk with.
Think about it, if your colleagues only suppress you all day long, then they will only bring you full of negative energy, which is very detrimental to your development in the workplace.
1. Cattle and sheep are in herds, tigers and wolves walk alone
Lu Xun has a famous saying: Wild beasts always walk alone, while cattle and sheep travel in groups. Strong people always live alone, and people usually hope to stick together for warmth when they are weak, but life is never as simple as you think.
As the saying goes, people with weaker energy than you will exclude you, people with equal energy to you will understand you, and people with stronger energy than you will tolerate you. When you meet someone who dislikes you in everything, you should understand that if you are not the same person, you should keep a certain distance.
You are working hard, but he is pouring cold water on you. It doesn’t matter if you don’t get along with such colleagues. Only by walking with a person of good character can you walk on the right path.
Everyone is the same. Due to different personalities and hobbies, the two people have completely different ideas and pursuits, so they have no common language.
Only people with the same ambition can come together to encourage and support each other.
2. The road is made by walking
Everyone walks their own path, no one can help you. Entering the workplace is to work, not to make friends. The iron camp and the floating soldiers each have their own lives. Work is work. There is no need to argue pointlessly about unnecessary things.
Doing your job conscientiously is the right way. Others who are just talking nonsense will not grow at all if they think about personal gains and losses all day long.
As the saying goes, do things first and be a person later. A person must first do things well before he is qualified to comment on others.
3. As long as your heart is full of fighting spirit, there is no obstacle that you cannot overcome.
Fighting spirit is the most important part of success. Success is achieved through countless failed experiences and lessons. I often hear seniors say that if you spend money to buy a lesson, you will understand it in the future.
Therefore, failure is not terrible, but depression is more terrible, which will make people unable to recover. What you need most at this time is encouragement. A word to wake you up can be said to wake up the dreamer.
He was not willing to let others strive to get ahead of him, and always exchanged harsh words with those who were lying flat. When there are such people dangling in front of you at work, try to have as little contact with such people as possible.
Many things in life cannot be easily changed. Only by following the trend and changing yourself can many problems be solved. As long as you have a positive heart, life has unlimited possibilities.
No matter how difficult things are, they will pass with time. Even if you stride forward, there will be dawn after dawn. There is no obstacle in life that you cannot overcome.
As the saying goes, when the boat reaches the bridge, it will naturally go straight, and the willows will be dark and the flowers will be bright again!